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Frances Kelleher | Dating Coach & Dating Expert | Ireland

Frances Kelleher Coaching

Multi-Award Winning Coach

How You Can Find Love This Year: What is the first thing you need to do?

Find the love you deserve

What do you need to do to find love?

Just because last year you haven’t met the one, you will give up on finding love. Finding love is just like any other goal. There may be some difficulties that you may face. It could also mean that there are some efforts to make. But know that everything is worth doing in finding the one.

It’s a new year! And for us to make the most of it and our precious time, we should look at what we really want this year. If it is to find that right person, we have to make it our number one priority. The greatest force on earth is loving and being loved by someone. So it is worth every single effort you make to get the love you deserve.

In order to make this happen, you first have to decide that this is the year that you are going to make it happen for yourself. You made other things in your life happen. Like you learned how to drive or cook, or getting your degree. You can make this happen too! The next step then is the crucial part. You have to commit to it. I see lots of people making the decision to find love but then they fail to commit.

So, what does committing mean? Doing what it takes to get the job done is a commitment. For instance, maybe it means you reach out to three people online every night. Or maybe it means you going out every single weekend because I always say they are not going to be like Santa and come down the chimney to you! You have to get out there and meet new people. It could mean joining a gym so you can get fit and therefore get more confident so you can be more confident with dating. Or it could also mean seeking advice from a dating expert.

Real good men and women are everywhere – if you are looking. And you’re the one who is also looking for you. Whatever it is that you need to do, commit to doing it. Do three to five things daily that move you towards your goal which is finding love. And I promise you, your love life will move forward this year!