As a Dating Coach in Ireland, I get to meet some very interesting clients. I ask sometimes, “Are you making the things you want a priority” ? This can be the first step in working toward a better relationship.
Darwin said “It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent. It is the one that is the most adaptable to change”. This is true in life, love and business.
Admitting that something is not working can also be the first step in working toward a better relationship. Or even a better life.
The next step required is to act to find a solution. Once we do our integrity builds, we start to feel better and the situation immediately becomes less agonising because we are now working on the result. Psychologists say fear stands for Fantasised Experience Appearing Real.
Blind swimmer Enhamed has been blind from the age of 8. His limiting beliefs told him he could not achieve what he wanted because he was blind. He let go of his fear and is now considered the best Paralympic swimmer in history winning 4 gold medals in Beijing and 2 in Athens. If he can do it so can you.
Do you have a bigger, higher vision for your life and love life? Do you want to find your right partner? If you have a relationship would you like to make it better? Are their goals in your life you want to achieve but don’t know where or how to start? If you answered yes to any of the above, I am here to tell you that you can. The first step is believing that you can.
47% of our everyday behaviour is habit. Good thoughts turn into good habits which turns into good days which turns into a good life. Just imagine your ideal day.
Darwin also wisely said “A man who dares to waste one hour of time has not discovered the value of life”. Don’t waste any more time, invest in your life. It is the only one you have. Take action on the things that matter to you. Make them a priority.