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Frances Kelleher | Dating Coach & Dating Expert | Ireland

Frances Kelleher Coaching

Multi-Award Winning Coach

Dating is like buying a house. You would want to know every important detail. And finding the right one depends heavily on your choice of knowing them first.

If you feel like you’re ready to buy a house, there are some questions you’re likely to ask yourself. Before you snap up that seemingly great buy on a home, there are a few important factors you must think about and consider. You do not buy a house without getting an engineer’s report first. It’s the exact same with dating. You do not put all your faith in one person until you know them. You don’t invest all your energy, time, and effort in them until you can see that they are as committed as you are to the relationship.

House is a structure that provides shelter, protection, and privacy. It is where we usually feel safe and warm, especially during bad weather. Just like a house, you want your life partner to give you shelter when you most need it. Be someone you can trust and have a solid foundation with. Most people are very intuitive and emotionally smart. So when you see and feel the signs that the person is not giving you these things, move on and find the person who will. Holding on will only prevent you from opening yourself up to potential opportunities. You are awesome, and you deserve to be loved.

You don’t buy a house with a dodgy structure. Don’t keep giving to a dodgy relationship. It is a waste of time. Just like there are many good houses out there, they are also many people. You just have to keep hunting.

Get to learn more about them. Try to see the signs if they are as committed as you are. Shelter is a basic human right and I believe so should have a person that gives you the love you know you deserve. Love is mutual and great.